"Hello, and thank you for your response.

I want to start by saying I truly meant no harm in sharing my review. I was surprised by the tone of the reply, as it felt like it assumed negative intent, and that was never the case. I began by expressing everything I love about the church, and I meant every word.

I chose not to go directly to the pastor or priests because I’ve had a previous meeting with Father Gonzalez about my sacraments. It was unrelated to my current concerns, but due to some miscommunication, I left the conversation feeling very emotional. I know he wasn’t trying to upset me, he was trying to resolve the issue, but it left me hesitant to initiate another conversation like that. That said, I’ve always appreciated Father Gonzalez and looked forward to Mass when he was presiding.

Your response made me feel a bit pressured to share more than I wanted to publicly. I kindly ask that future replies to feedback be approached with more gentleness. I say that with all respect.

I genuinely didn’t know about the children’s chapel. During my OCIA church tour, I wasn’t shown or made aware of it, perhaps it's in a different building? I’ve had difficult experiences at other churches due to my daughter’s disability, so I try very hard to sit where we’ll disturb others the least.

The room I referred to in my review was the one near the south end of the church, under the picture of Mary, which was sometimes announced for mothers to nurse or soothe children. I may have misunderstood its purpose, and I’m happy to be corrected. I only wish the correction had come with more kindness, in that case, I would’ve gladly updated my review.

Thank you again. I still care deeply for this church and hope to return when the time feels right.

Warmly,
Isamar

Original Post: This is by far one of the most beautiful churches in Southern California. I had the privilege of finishing my sacraments with my husband here. OCIA was such a pleasure and I looked forward to it every week with John Anderson. The only reason I took off two stars is because this church is probably the most unwelcoming for families with small children. I have received some pretty dirty looks because of my daughter who has a disability and my baby who still makes noises during service. I tried going to the nursing room but it’s too cold/hot (the door is always open) and has no place to sit and is completely isolated from church. I can’t hear what’s going on if I’m in there with my child and don’t know when the Eucharist is being received. I don’t want to open the humongous door just to see what’s going on every few minutes. The last time I went there with my family, we all walked into the cry room and just left because there was nothing we could do in there. I love this church. I want to go back so badly, but I can’t. It’s not made for families with small children, let alone my daughter who has a disability. I’m writing this with the hope that someday things will be different."

Isamar De La Torre

"Saw this beautiful church passing by and had to stop to see it, we also passed by nearby city halls beatifull building.

Must see if you are around the area!"

Joshua Gonzalez

"The church is beautiful and awe inspiring. The church was painted by European artisans and is worth your stop. Find some parking near by and then walk down to Slater 50/50 for lunch. This is probably a 20 minute stop but if you are in Pasadena , it is worth your time"

Scott Hampton